Thursday, July 12, 2018

Stanza 124



Original Old Norse: Auden & Taylor: Bellows: Bray:
Sifjum er þá blandat
hverr er segja ræðr
einum allan hug
alt er betra
en sé brigðum at vera
era sá vinr öðrum
er vilt eitt segir
Affection is mutual when men can open
All their heart to each other:
He whose words are always fair
Is untrue and not to be trusted.
Mingled is love | when a man can speak
To another all his thought;
Nought is so bad | as false to be,
No friend speaks only fair.
123. There is mingling in friendship when man can utter
all his whole mind to another;
there is nought so vile as a fickle tongue;
no friend is he who but flatters.
Chisholm: Hollander: Terry: Thorpe:
When each can speak all his mind to the other,
friendship is shared.
Anything is better than fickleness.
He is no friend, whose words are always fair.
Then love is mingled when a man can say
To a bosom friend what burdens him;
few things are worse than fickle mind:
no friend who but speaks thee fair.
True bonds are formed where men keep faith
and don't hide their hearts.
Anything is better than a breach of friendship --
a real friend will say what you'd rather not hear.
126. There is a mingling of affection,
where one can tell
another all his mind.
Everything is better
than being with the deceitful.
He is not another’s friend
who ever says as he says.




Recently, a very dear friend of mine was being, well, a dumbass. Because he is one I call Brother, it fell to me to call him out on his dumbassedness. I'm not one who will just smile and nod and be a “yes man”. Those “friends” aren't really friends. If you have a friend who will stand up and call you on your actions once in a while, know that they are true friends, and are simply trying to help you stay the course. Thankfully, Bob knows and trusts me, due to our long friendship, and was able to listen to the criticism, and change course. He has done the same for me in the past.

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